Society's Puppets..!

Hey everyone its Harj! HDCandy hopes you’re all doing well, enjoying life and looking fab!

We have had a few people talk to us about fashion and how it is based on “skinny people” We ourselves have strong opinions about this (since this has affected us in some way or another), and thought that we should focus a little more on the fashion side of things. I myself used to be discriminated against due to my size but have come through it, still a big girl but fashionable and confident - that's what we want for you! 

Before we get down to the fun stuff, I thought it might be a good idea to give you some facts and figures and some basic ideologies.

The media has had a huge influence on how people look at themselves and others. The constant showcase of “perfect people” in ads, commercials and music videos makes us think twice. As a result, the rate of eating disorders have increased. Check this out…

Did you know:

·        The rate of Anorexia increased from 419 (1996-1997) to 620 (2005-2006)??!!

·        In 2006, NHS hospitals (National Health Service) treated 58 children under the       age of 10 for eating disorders???

·        Children as young as 10 are refusing to not only eat, but also drink water, with the fear that it contains calories!  

The media has managed to make its way to little children. The development of children’s beauty pageants have added to the pressure of being “ideal” and “perfect”. 

Individuality and uniqueness is now frowned upon and those that stick to individuality are labelled rebels or misfits. Point is, the media is constantly moulding society into what they perceive as the “norm”.

 Both Dee and I feel that this is not the way to go about things. Sure, if you have a slim body and love it, rock the latest trends. But this doesn’t mean that bigger girls can’t also do so. Don’t conform to anorexia, bulimia or other eating disorders…love who you are!! Don’t let size be an issue and stop you from strutting your stuff in the latest designs. Watch out for our next blog where we will be discussing body types, which clothes suit your body type, what’s hot in terms of fashion this season, how to get the latest looks for cheap and how to turn your old clothes (which may not be in fashion anymore) into something flashy, sassy and up to date by just making a few alterations......xXx

Hey guys it’s Dee. As Harjit stated, we are are not ones for conforming to anorexia and bulimia, but work to overcome this constant pressure from the media to be skinny.

That does not mean go under the knife. It’s easily done by just changing up your wardrobe a little. And that’s what we’re going to try and show you in our next blog. Affordable fashion tips for any shape and size.

I have a younger sister, who came to me and told me how people call her names, just because she’s a little bigger. This was when she was 12. Who wants to hear their sister/mother/friend struggle, just because people don’t like their figure? I'm pretty sure no one. And to hear my own little sister struggle and even talking about starting to diet, pretty much hurt me. But I spoke to her and made sure that she won’t go on some stupid diet and stuff. She’s now 14 and looks more beautiful than ever, all because she stopped being upset about her figure. So please take your time to tell whoever is close to you, that they are beautiful no matter what shape or size they are. With confidence anything can be done.

So look out for our next blog, where we will show you how to stay in style without being ashamed of your figure....xXx


By the way if you have been affected by any of the issues mentioned today, there are many charities that offer advice and help. There are also many books out there. We have linked two - the ones we thought were most appropriate and fitting. Nevertheless there are more. 


There is also a "Support line" which is awesome at supplying advice and providing support for many different things. If you wish to contact them, the details are:

Phone

Helpline: 01708 765200 (hours vary so ring for details)

Email

info@supportline.org.uk

Post

SupportLine, PO Box 2860, Romford, Essex RM7 1JA

Hope this helps....Take care my lovelies and remember - each and every one of u is beautiful, regardless of shape, size, or what others say. Our motto is - Haters don't hate you, they're just jealous!


Keep on looking sexy!!

Love, Peace and Awesomeness....

                                                                    HDCandy xXx